This is something I have been working on for a long time. It’s been a long project truthfully. I have had to really figure out if I am a switch for years. This is where I am with that subject.
Yeah, I am not a switch –
it’s a complicated situation, when the Domme learns from the submissive experience, as the same person. So the submissive, through living as one, TRAINS the Domme in what they both WANT truthfully. Ultimately, the submissive is allowing the Dominant. Therefore, life kind of sets itself up that way due to the Dominant desires, and the submissive limits (among other things.)
At that point, after being both, different reactions are for different individuals.
So roles/places do change, BUT sometimes a submissive -can’t/won’t- change -roles/places – with a Dominant (and vice versa) particularly once they have had these various life long experiences with. That relationship is created. However, a submissive might never submit again. .. And as usual the submissive will always make the better Dom/me.
“The best Dominant trains, first, as a submissive. Then they know what “they” want.” – L/leather common knowledge.
LeeLee (Ma’am)
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